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Conventional Therapy Tends Toward........... |
Personal Coaching Tends Toward.......... |
| personal Strengthening | personal evolution |
| triage | visioning |
| issue resolution | problem solving |
| why me?/why this? | what's next/what now? |
| overcoming obstacles | sustainable flow |
| traditional relationship | collaborative, equal partnership |
| unconscious>conscious level | conscious>consciousness level |
| away from | toward |
| looks backward | focuses forward |
| raising standards | raising standards |
| somewhat vulnerable | generally open, not vulnerable |
| cognitive/behavior patterns | actively building |
| letting go | life dynamics |
| needs help | wants a partner |
| pain | frustration |
| past>present | present>future |
| needs, wants | needs, wants |
| issue resolution | life design |
| driven by unresolved issues | chooses goals and actions |
| absorbs information | acts on information |
| self understanding | self potential |
| ask why | asks what |
| disruptive situations | tolerations |
| usually a measured pace | often a rapid pace |
| medical model | performance model |
| treatment | co-creation |
| healing | achievement |
| presented complaints | common situations |
| progress | performance |
| self concept | self discovery |
| integration | manifestation |
| diagnosis | self assessment |
| support | support, solutions |
| history | related experiences |
| self imposed limits | missed opportuntiies |
| acceptance | flow |
| conflicts | paradoxes |
| reality | paradigms |
| restoring | expanding |
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